Rebecca Kaderli

About Rebecca

My approach

Whether you come as a couple or solo, there is hope. My work is grounded in a structurally informed, Adlerian lens focusing on patterns in relationships, which led me to develop the PairCare Method, a specialized lifespan and couples-focused approach dedicated to clinical excellence. I am dedicated to doing my very best for you—your happiness matters.

About me

Clients describe me as direct and humorous, and appreciate how we confront tough topics and apply complex concepts in a way that resonates. I am nonjudgmental, non-moralistic, and fanatical about counseling theory. I believe in the actualization tendency and approach life’s challenges with optimism. If something needs to shift—reach out. You’re welcome here.

More background

Work history

Welcome mid-life couples and singles! Grappling with loneliness, stress, depression, anger, infidelity, lack of passion, major disagreements, or divorce? Counseling helps. Throughout my career, I’ve been fortunate to study with Master Counselor Demetrios Peratsakis, lead statewide counseling organizations, and train fellow therapists, and am now practicing in Richmond, VA. Whether you’re managing a high-stress career, empty nesting, hormonal shifts, or wondering where your desire or ambition went—you are worth the investment. I help women reclaim self-worth and vitality, and men confront pressure, isolation, or emotional shutdown. Whether you come as a couple or solo, I offer a path forward. Couples move past gridlock. Individual work often starts with a goal—like overcoming burnout—and grows into meaningful change. I bring an intelligent, humorous, and empathetic style, grounded in Adlerian, Cognitive, EFT, and DBT theory. Currently work is private pay with a waitlist for insurance. Clients appreciate my ability to confront tough topics and apply complex concepts in a way that resonates. I am nonjudgmental, non-moralistic, and fanatical about counseling theory. I believe in the actualization tendency and approach life’s challenges with optimism. Therapy works. Take the step towards a positive experience—reach out. You’re welcome here.

Meet Rebecca

A short hello from Rebecca

Specialties

Types of therapy

Who Rebecca works with

Ages

Adults, Elders (65+)

Communities

Body Positive

Languages

English

Education and training

Masters in Clinical Mental Health Counseling

Certifications

Rebecca, founder of PairCare, is a clinical powerhouse and counseling leader, past president of the Virginia Counselors Association, Chair of the Behavioral Health Providers Coalition, a registered supervisor, keynote speaker, and recipient of the Counselor of the Year and Consumer Advocacy Awards.