Kelly Howard

Kelly Howard

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Berkeley, California · Telehealth

AMFT

License verified against the federal NPI Registry on July 23, 2026. NPI 1730892829. Verify independently →

“Sex and relationship therapy for people living outside the norm”

Kelly Howard is a California-licensed AMFT in Berkeley, California. Specializes in sexuality, gender identity, lgbtq+ issues and relationship issues. Telehealth. License verified against the federal NPI Registry on July 23, 2026.

About Kelly

I'm Kelly Howard, a sex-positive, trauma-informed psychotherapist offering online therapy to individuals and relationships of all configurations throughout California. Whether you're navigating intimacy, identity, or a relationship in transition — this is a space built for the full complexity of who you are. My practice is affirming and celebratory of gender, sexuality, and relationship diversity.

Non-binary, queer, kinky, non-monogamous, polyamorous, and questioning clients are not just welcome here — this work was designed with you in mind.

My approach

My practice covers a wide range of sex and relationship specialties. Some common areas include: Desire discrepancy & reigniting intimacy / Sexual orientation exploration / Non-nuclear household navigation / Gottman method & communication / Kink & BDSM dynamics / Relationship structure & philosophy exploration / Discernment counseling / Conscious uncoupling

About me

I am a perpetual student, educator, and healer — with a deep desire to keep learning about relationships and the human condition throughout my life and career. I meet you wherever you are. There is no agenda, no "right" outcome, and nothing too much for this space. My style is warm, curious, and non-judgmental.

Specialties

SexualityGender IdentityLGBTQ+ IssuesRelationship IssuesMarital and PremaritalInfertilitySexual DysfunctionLife TransitionsCareer CounselingCommunicationCodependency

Types of therapy

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)Dialectical Behavior (DBT)Person-CenteredMotivational InterviewingInternal Family Systems (IFS)Gottman MethodNarrative TherapyTrauma FocusedGestaltExistentialCouples Therapy

Who Kelly works with

Ages
Adults
Communities
LGBTQ+, Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender, Non-Binary, Neurodivergent, Sex Worker Allied, Body Positive, Open Relationships / Non-Monogamy
Languages
English

Education and training

Masters in Counseling Psychology | Golden Gate University | 2023

Certifications

Sex Therapist Certification | Sexual Health Alliance | 2024

Sexuality Coach & Consultant Certification | Sexual Health Alliance | 2024

Gottman Couples Therapist, Level 1 | Gottman Institute | 2023

Year-long Traineeship | Pacific Center for Human Growth

Crisis Center Volunteer | The Trevor Project

Psychedelic Peer Support Sitter | Zendo Project

Frequently asked questions

What does Kelly specialize in?

Kelly Howard specializes in sexuality, gender identity, lgbtq+ issues and relationship issues.

Is Kelly a licensed therapist?

Yes. Kelly Howard is a AMFT in California. This license was verified against the federal NPI Registry on July 23, 2026.

Does Kelly offer telehealth or in-person sessions?

Kelly Howard offers telehealth.

Does Kelly take insurance?

Kelly Howard accepts Self-Pay / Out of Network, Sliding Scale and Out of Pocket. Confirm your specific plan when you reach out.

Where is Kelly located?

Kelly Howard is based in Berkeley, California, and also offers telehealth.

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