TIPP Skills
Four fast, body-based DBT skills for bringing down extreme distress quickly, when an emotion is so intense you cannot think clearly.
About this tool
TIPP is a set of distress tolerance skills from dialectical behavior therapy, designed for the moments when emotion is so high that thinking and other coping skills are out of reach. Instead of working on your thoughts, TIPP works directly on your body. By shifting your physiology, it lowers the intensity of the emotion enough that you can think again and choose a wiser next step.
The letters stand for Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, and Paired muscle relaxation. The first two work the fastest. Cold water on the face triggers the body's dive response, which slows the heart rate and calms the nervous system within seconds to minutes. Intense exercise burns off the surge of stress hormones that fuel panic and rage.
TIPP does not fix the situation and it is not meant to. It is a circuit breaker that buys you time so that the emotion does not drive a decision you cannot take back. Like all DBT skills, it works best when you have practiced it ahead of time, so reach for it early rather than waiting until you are completely overwhelmed.
- Linehan MM. DBT Skills Training Manual. 2nd ed. Guilford Press; 2015.
- Linehan MM. DBT Skills Training Handouts and Worksheets. 2nd ed. Guilford Press; 2015.
TIPP Skills FAQ
What does TIPP stand for?
Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, and Paired muscle relaxation. They are DBT distress tolerance skills that change your body chemistry to bring down crisis-level emotion fast.
Why does cold water help calm you down?
Cold on the face combined with holding your breath triggers the body's dive response, which slows the heart rate and shifts the nervous system toward calm within seconds to minutes.
Is the temperature skill safe for everyone?
Not always. If you have a heart condition, an eating disorder, or take medication affecting heart rate, check with a doctor before using the cold-water skill, since it lowers heart rate.
When should I use TIPP?
When emotion is at a crisis level and you cannot think clearly or are at risk of an impulsive, harmful action. Use it early to take the edge off, then move to a slower coping skill.